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AC/DC
This is a person that enjoys both same sex and opposite
sex, also known as Bi-sexual.
ALL CULTURES
An individual or couple that enjoy all fetishes.
ANAL
Anal intercourse; see Greek Culture.
ARTS
Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures
B&D
Bondage and discipline (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
BI
Bisexual; see AC/DC
BIZARRE
Unusual sexual desires; Way out.
BONDAGE
A type of sexual fetish, which normally involves things
such as ropes or leather, which are used to tie a person
up. The person being tied up is normally used as the
“submissive” and the person in control is known as the
“dominant”.
CAN ENTERTAIN
Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for
swinging.
CAN TRAVEL
Advertiser will travel to your home to swing.
CANING
A spanking fetish employing, usually using a bamboo or
light wood.
CHEATING
Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge
and consent
CLEAN
Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases
CLIQUE
A group of people that will not have sex and/or party
with you
CLOSED DOOR
(see CLOSED SWINGING)
CLOSED SWINGING
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so
that partners of a marriage or other intimate
relationship do not visually observe each other's
swinging. The rooms are almost always in the same house
CLOSET SWINGER
A person who hides that he/she is a swinger.
COMMUNITY MEMBER
A person who believes that swinging is more than just
recreational sex. But a natural way of life; a
lifestyle.
COUPLE
A man and a woman, either married, or in a relationship,
maybe even co-habiting.
CPL
Short for Couple
CULTURE
Euphemism for Fetish, Arts
ENGLISH CULTURE.
Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning (see caning).
FRENCH CULTURE
Oral-genital sexual activity.
GREEK CULTURE
Anal-penile intercourse
ROMAN CULTURE:
Sexual orgies
SWEDISH CULTURE:
Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually
stimulate another.
CUNNILINGUS
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth
especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth
(see FRENCH CULTURE)
DILDO
An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic,
for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the
anus
DISCIPLINE
A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the
other, a willing participant. Often includes physical
punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from
physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings
(see B&D).
DISCRETION
Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so
that children or others who may open mail or answer
phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the
swinging activity.
DOCILE
Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see
SUBMISSIVE).
DOMESTIC TRAINING
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate
and humiliating nature.
DOMINANT
The sexual partner in control of the willing submissive
partner
ENTERTAIN
An exhibitionist, someone who is sexually turned on by
being watched when engaging in sexual acts.
Female FELLATIO
Stimulation of the penis by the mouth, tongue, and lips
of a female.
FETISH
Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual
objects, actions or non-genital anatomy
FLAGELLATION
Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping
or spanking
FUN AND GAMES
Euphemism for sexual activity
GAY
A homosexual person, gay usually refers to Men who are
interested in other Men. Lesbian normally refers to
Women who are interested in other Women, but can also be
known as Gay. Lesbian action is much more common in the
life style than Gay.
GENEROUS
Refers to money for sex.
GROUP ROOM
This is a room that is usually furnished wall to wall
with mattresses, it is for group swinging only.
GROUP SEX
Swinging; Social-sexual activity between three or more
people.
GROWTH SWINGING
Social-sexual environment that promotes emotional,
personal and social growth
HARD CORE
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual
interaction is assumed and expected.
HARD SWINGING
(see HARD CORE)
HEAD
Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head"
HEDONIST (Swinging)
Euphemism for a swinger; Lives for pleasure.
HETEROSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
HOMOSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
kinky
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
HOST
Willing to provide the place for you to meet i.e. at a
hotel, there home, etc (a host)
HUMANIST
Person who believes in human values, potential,
self-respect of the individual, personal freedom and
human rights.
HUNG
Refers to a man with a large penis.
INDOOR SPORTS
Swinging activities in general.
INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP
Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional
and recreational values. Used chiefly in personal ads
and letters in answer to personal ads
LEATHER
A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of
leather garments.
LESBIAN
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other
women (see GAY)
MARITAL AIDS
Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual
pleasure of self and others.
MASOCHISM
Sexual gratification through receiving pain and
humiliation from others.
MASTER/SLAVE
Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual
relationship (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
MEET FOR PLEASURE
Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence for social or
emotional interaction not directly related to sexual
activity. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in
answer to personal ads.
MENAGE A' TROIS
Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in
a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going
emotional relationship of the participants. {see
THREESOME, TRIAD)
MORESOMES
More than three people in a swinging interaction.
NEWCOMERS
As the name suggests, people new to the life style,
first timers.
NONSMOKER
Doesn’t smoke, if it is used in an ad then it normally
means they want non smokers only.
OPEN DOOR
(see OPEN SWINGING)
OPEN SWINGING
A swinging party where couples are free to swing in the
same room as other swingers.
ORAL-GENITAL
(see CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)
ORGY
Sexual interaction among several men and women in the
same room; group sex.
PARTY
A gathering of three or more people to engage in
swinging. Usually including drink and food.
PARTY CLOTHES
Includes clothes that you ware to the party, and cloths
that you change into during the party; the change of
clothes are normally robes, lingerie, wrap arounds and
other simple items that are easily removed. They will
also show the wearer in there best light, and will make
certain part of the body visible, normally of an erotic
nature.
PASSIVE
Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive
corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging
(see DISCIPLINE)
PHOTO
Usually used in an ad, interested in exchange of nude or
sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of
others.
PHOTOGRAPHY
Interested in the exchange (see Photo) or making of
sexually explicit photographs, or moves. Interested in
meeting with others for the making of these.
P/P
Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
PRO
Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
RECREATIONAL SWINGER
A person who practices swinging primary as a
recreational diversion with no desire for emotional
attachment.
RESTRAINT
Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
ROMAN
Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN
CULTURE)
RUBBER
Condom, a means of contraception. Also sexual
stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber,
usually associated with B&D.
SAFE
Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or
impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy.
S.A.S.E
Self-addressed stamped envelope.
SGL
Single person.
S&M
Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).
SINGLE
A swinger without a partner, single or married.
SOCIAL
A party, dance, or general gathering for social
interaction only, there is no swinging at a social.
Although swinging may follow if arranged privately.
SOCIAL SWING CLUB
A swing club, usually requiring membership. It offers
social and swinging activities, which will be regular,
on premise swing parties. Attendance may be restricted
to couples, although the marital status of these couples
is normally not important.
SOFT SWINGING
A swinging party where sexual activity is available, but
is not required, or expected. Also used to describe
swapping up to but not including intercourse. (Also see
Hardcore)
S.T.D. or STD
Sexually transmitted disease. A term developed in the
late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social
and moral implications in the minds of many. These
social and moral implications interfered with the
legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as
a medical problem.
STR
(see STRAIGHT)
STRAIGHT
Can mean either; someone who is not a swinger, a swinger
who is not interested in same sex sexual activity or a
person who does not use drugs.
STUCK UP
(see CLIQUE)
SWAPPING
Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
SWING MAGAZINE
Just like any other magazine, but specialised for the
swinging community, will include ads for people looking
for swinging partners, and general articles related for
the swinging community.
SWINGING
Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women.
It is a couple oriented activity but single men and
women sometimes are involved.
SWINGING LIFESTYLE
Style of living with swinging a major component in
recreation, choice of friends, business and social life,
and intimate relationships.
SWINGING MARRIAGE
Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic
ideals.
SUBMISSIVE
(see PASSIVE)
THREESOME
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a
swinging encounter. Not the same as a "menage a' trois"
in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and
a continuing relationship.
TICKET
A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party
solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket
generally has no intention to swing or is not free to
swing.
TOYS
Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
TRAVEL/TRAVELER
(see CAN TRAVEL)
TRIAD
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a
continuing relationship of emotional and sexual
involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
TRIOLISM
Used in personal ads to indicate desire for
"threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see
TRIAD)
TUBAL LIGATION
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian
tubes to make a woman infertile; A method of
contraception. Also called a Band Aid Operation in
reference to the small incision made just below the
navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
UTOPIAN SWINGER
A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle
with humanistic ideals.
VASECTOMY
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens
to make a man infertile; A method of contraception.
VERSATILE
Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
VIBRATOR
Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the
vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris,
breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile
shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive
ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from
a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men
and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please
another.
VOLUPTUOUS
Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a
woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to
full but well formed hips.
VOYEUR
A person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others
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